I remember being a kid and thinking that time passed by so slowly. Summers lasted F-O-R-E-V-E-R. School never seemed to get around to being done. And I aged every so slowly as big age milestones always seemed far off in the distance. Then I had a baby and time magically sped up to ludicrous speed (for all you Spaceballs fans). It seemed like just a few days ago that I anxiously waited in line (and a cold, cold line it was as it was the middle of February) to sign my baby girl up for her first year of preschool. It was one day a week for two hours and fifteen minutes and I agonized over whether she was ready, if I was being a good or bad Mom by sending her to school at only two and a half years old, and what I would do with my baby being gone every single week.
As I took our "Last Day of School" pictures I marveled over what this year has brought. Not only growth physically but a mental leap forward that I didn't expect. My little girl pretends! She makes up stories to tell me (not lies but fun stories about dinosaurs eating her socks and her telling them to be nice). She has a vocabulary that amazes me as I wonder where she learned some of her words (and recommits me to being extra careful about what she watches, where she goes, and who she plays with!). The little baby that needed to be coaxed into the classroom on her first day is now a big girl who has to be reminded to give Mom a hug and kiss before racing into her room of learning fun. And that one day a week that she was gone...I found I really enjoyed having a guaranteed two hours to myself to run errands. I even rediscovered my love of book browsing and pedicures!
Next year we've signed her up for three days a week, three hours a day and there's that part of me that worries that it will be too much. That I should have signed her up for only two days a week and sacrificed part of my Bible study time to make that happen. I wonder if I'm pushing too hard for her to get to that next "thing" whatever it may be and not giving her enough opportunities to just be a kid and play and have fun. Then I remind myself that she LOVES school. That she makes friends wherever she goes (and they're all her "favorite friend" right now). That a very good friend of mine's daughter also did three days a week at Abby's age and occasionally complained that school wasn't every day. And I know deep in my heart that my Abby will succeed at whatever she does. And that by the end of next year I'll be rejoicing over how well the three-days-a-week preschool went and worrying over putting her in three or five half-days a week (as she'll be in full-day Kindergarten when that time comes and wondering which option would better prepare her). I'm a mama and I worry...what can I say? :-)
But until then I'm super proud of how well Abby did in her first year at school. Girl knows her ABCs, her numbers, colors, some sounds of letters, songs, some bible verses, and an overall good feeling for school. I couldn't be happier!
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| "First Day of School" picture compared to... |
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| "Last Day of School" picture. Nine months sure does make a difference! |
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| First time walking into her classroom and ... |
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| Last time walking into her classroom. Here her backpack looks like a backpack and now a body-sized bag. |
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| The cookies that Abby helped make as gifts to her teachers. |
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| In this picture she actually surprised me. All year long as we'd walk to her classroom door I would sign her in and then hang her backpack on her peg while Abby played in the hallway. On her last day she kept her backpack on while I signed her in then hopped over to her nametag and proudly exclaiming "This is Abby's spot" and put her backpack on 'her' peg. She knows how to spell her name! |
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| Abby's teachers! Ms. Christy (left) and Ms. Jeannette (right). They were such great teachers for Abby's introduction to the scholastic world. Sweet and caring yet wouldn't let her step out of line. |
As we head into summer Nate and I decided we wanted Abby to keep up on her schooling so she didn't lose what she'd learned the past year and decided to do some "homeschooling" over the summer. Basically, I bought two workbooks and we've been going through them a few pages at a time. I was never a teacher, had no desire to be a teacher, and frankly was amazed at the abilities of teachers. Now that I'm getting just the tiniest taste of teaching I have even more respect for my teaching friends. Abby is super excited to do homeschooling (she was the one to remind me we hadn't done it yet after we were finished with lunch) but still requires a patience level I thought I'd achieved but realize it's a work in progress. :-)
Congrats on your first year of school, Abby!